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- (Gambar) Ceramah Anwar Ibrahim Disurai Oleh Polis
- Why should Malaysians believe ‘Datuk T’ in preference over Anwar?
- Gearing-up For Sarawak Election
- When Malay politics get filthier...
- BN Youth Job Fair
- Facebook ~ Have you watched this video about how they are milking our info?
- Karnival Kerjaya Pemuda BN diiktiraf Malaysia Book of Records
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- Solat Hajat Perdana Menangkis Fitnah Jahat, 28 Feb, Stadium Malawati
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- SKANDAL SEKS VIDEO: PERTEMBUNGAN FAKTA DAN PEMBABITAN PIMPINAN UMNO*
- Funny Parody Video: Najib & the Sex Video Scandal
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Posted: 25 Mar 2011 11:23 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 12:01 PM PDT
Lebih 5,000 rakyat pelbagai lapisan kaum hadir program pelancaran Kempen Tolak kes Fitnah II anjuran KEADILAN di perkarangan Pusat Khidmat Rakyat Ahli Parlimen Gombak, Taman Melawati di sini, malam ini...
5,000 saksi Anwar diheret polis dari pentas ceramah, 3 ditahan
KUALA LUMPUR: Lebih 5,000 rakyat pelbagai lapisan kaum hadir program pelancaran Kempen Tolak kes Fitnah II anjuran KEADILAN di perkarangan Pusat Khidmat Rakyat Ahli Parlimen Gombak, Taman Melawati di sini, malam ini.
Seperti kelaziman, program anjuran KEADILAN itu dihalang polis hingga menyebabkan majlis yang dijadual bermula jam 9 malam ditangguh kira-kira sejam.
Polis dikatakan hanya membenarkan sesi ucapan selama 30 minit sahaja, menyebabkan pegawai kepada Timbalan Presiden KEADILAN, Mohamed Azmin Ali terpaksa berunding dengan polis Ampang.
Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim, Ketua Pembangkang turut muncul hingga menggamatkan hadirin.
Bagaimanapun, polis hanya membenarkan Anwar memberi ucapan selama 15 minit sahaja, malah mematikan pembesar suara dan mengheret Ketua Umum KEADILAN itu turun dari pentas, hingga menimbulkan kemarahan orang ramai.
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Pada jam 11.30 malam, polis menyerbu ke arah orang ramai hingga menimbulkan kekecohan sedangkan program itu, asalnya berlangsung aman.
Suasana terus kecoh dan tiga orang dipercayai ditahan polis.
Dalam pada itu, seorang wartawan Free Malaysia Today, Fazy Sahir cedera terkena lontaran kerusi dalam suasana kecoh itu.
Kempen itu dinamakan sebagai 'DNA' atau 'Datuk Najib-Altantuya' bertujuan mengupas perkembangan terkini kes yang dihadapi Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim dan fitnah terbaru mengenai rakaman video seks yang didalangi Umno melalui 'Datuk T'.
Turut hadir dalam ceramah ialah Ahli Parlimen Balik Pulau, Yusmadi Yusoff dan Ahli Dewan Undangan Negeri (Adun) Hulu Klang, Saari Sungib.
Gambar Dari Media Rakyat Facebook
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 11:01 AM PDT
From MALAYSIA TODAY By Kim Quek There is one simple way to find out whether 'Datuk T's' pornographic video showing a look-alike of Anwar Ibrahim is a hoax, and that is to go to Anwar's face book from your own face book account and look for his entries at the time when the video was supposed to be recorded, which is 10:23pm to 10:45pm on Feb 21, 2011. I just did that, and I found that anwar made entries on that day at 10:40pm, 10:49pm, 10:50pm, for which he received 9 comments, 17 comments, 8 comments respectively. And thereafter, he made another 7 entries, up till 11:028pm. The fact that Anwar was actually posting messages in face book at the relevant time clearly indicates that Anwar couldn't have been doing what was indicated in the video. As jokingly exclaimed by Anwar during the press conference on Mar 21, hours after the exposure of the video: How could he be carrying out the sex act and typing on his computer at the same time? Obviously, 'Datuk T' had neglected to look up Anwar's face book before he launched his pornographic piece. QUESTIONABLE TIME FRAME Purely on a technical level, another question that puzzled me was: How could so many acts be compressed into the purported duration of 22 minutes as indicated in the video? Journalists who had viewed the video said that the love-making part lasted 17 minutes. This means that within the remaining 5 minutes, the following events had to be completed: Pre-sex act: · Anwar look-alike (Mr. X) walked into the room with the conductor who gave instruction to the prostitute who was already waiting there. The conductor left the room. · The couple undressed. · Woman went into the bathroom and took a bath, which should include wiping dry with a towel (the undressing and bathroom part of the video was skipped by 'Datuk T', but he said the woman took a bath). Post-sex act: · Mr.X wiped his lower part with tissue, and went into the bathroom to clean himself, which presumably included washing and wiping dry with a towel. · Mr. X came out from the bathroom, dressed himself and walked off the room. It should be obvious that when one tallies up the reasonable time allowed for completing each of these events, the total will far exceed 5 minutes. This conflict of time frames further undermines the credibility of the video clip. PLOT IMPLAUSIBLE 'Datuk T' said that the sex romp took place in a Spa which provides sex in Kuala Lumpur.....( but today it was learnt the location of the recording was an apartment located at Jalan Ampang Hilir ) Will anyone believe that opposition leader Anwar Ibrahim – who has been subjected incessantly to all sorts of cruel and unjust political persecution for the past 13 years, branded as enemy number one, for which the ruling power has been desperate to see that he is politically annihilated – would even condescend to walk into a place of such disrepute at the peak hours, where he would be instantly recognized by almost everyone present there, not to mention having sex with a prostitute in the same place? Haven't 'Datuk T' and the plotters behind him overstretched their imagination, if they think the people would swallow such a story? 'Datuk T' also claimed that Anwar sent him to the room to look for his lost watch. If Anwar had patronized a prostitute in the room, would he be so foolish as to send someone to the room to look for his watch? Wouldn't that stupid act amount to a virtual confession to others what misdeed he had done there? And wouldn't that confession spell the end of his political career? Who will believe that Anwar would value the watch more than his family, his political career and the destiny of his country and his people? Despite the indefatigable effort of the ruling power to fix Anwar all these years, has it produced an iota of evidence of his political or moral misconduct, such as corruption, abuse of power, religious or moral sins? If Anwar has shown none of these weaknesses, why should Malaysians believe 'Datuk T' in preference over Anwar, when what the former has displayed so far is nothing but crass acts of character assassination that serves the evil design of his political masters?
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 10:53 AM PDT
On 23rd March, Parti Keadilan Rakyat's Penang Election Committee held its meeting to discuss and prepare for the Sarawak Election. In view of importance of East Malaysia, being the traditional stronghold of BN, the meeting felt more effort should be given to win over the support of the Sarawak folks so as to swing the voting pattern in the next general election.
It was also ob served that the anti-West Malaysian feeling is now less in comparison to the past, and the anti-Taib Mahmud's, the Sarawak Chief Minister's, ground-swell is surging ahead with momentum. However, there is still a difference between the urban and rural folks in their thinking.
Senator Dato Mustafa Kamal (Pak Muss) chaired the meeting, accompanied by Dato Halim and Abdul Malik (State Vice-Chairmen), and Ustaz Maktar (State Secretary).
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 10:19 AM PDT
I am saddened by the latest political development. I guess many of us, especially the Malays agree to my opinion that the Malay politics are getting filthier each day.
While PM Najib is proud of the 'new political model' which helps solve many issues within the ruling party, Umno is becoming more vulnerable to politics of a la Mafia. In other word, 'Islam' does not make them a matured race.
I am not sure what is the take here. What is there for rake. When former Melaka CM Rahim Tambychik and his two friends in the 'Datuk T' team exposed the sex video purportedly starred Opposition Leader Anwar Ibrahim and an unidentified woman, I began to contemplate what sort of politics were involved.
Many Malays, including Umno leaders like it. They enjoy it so much that Bukit Aman and Home Minister Hishammuddin didnt do anything to contain it.
I recall the time when Chua Soi Lek's sex video was in the market. And many years ago when the cartridge containing the 'self-recorded' sex scenes of former Dewan Rakyat deputy speaker D P Vijandran went into circulation, the Home Ministry and the police were quick to issue warning - that whoever was in possession of such materials would be nabbed.
However, the latest sex scandal seems to become a hit. The police didnt take any action against those who have it. Rahim and Co in fact was given a 'soft permission' to call up members of the media for a sneak preview of the video.
Whether Anwar really is the star of the movie of not, is not the issue. The point here - why didnt the authority act on those in possession of the porno video? And now that it is already in circulation, the chance to retrieve and halt it is almost impossible.
Why let Rahim and Co be given the privilege and 'immunity' to conduct the preview? If I am the IGP or Home Minister, I would reprimand Rahim and friends when they surrender the videos to the police yesterday. They should be put to question.
So, when Anwar and some quarters hurled accusations that some police personnel were involved in making the 'movie', we found it not easy to come up with a denial because our actions were in 'collaboration' with Rahim and Co. Why didnt anybody question their motive?
I am not for Anwar. I wont let him get a chance to become our No. 1 leader but lots of sympathy is going for him. Rahim has provided good ammunition to Anwar and the Opposition for them to fire back at the government during Sarawak State election on Apr 16 and probably general elections later this year. Yes, it actually backfires!
Malay politicians, journalists and bloggers are also riding high on this issue. Apart from Rahim, so many others are trying to become hero in killing Anwar. Almost each and every one of them wants some credits in it.
As I mentioned in my previous posting, it was not a surprise that it came from Rahim as Anwar his No.1 enemy for what happened in the early 1990s. His two friends were just taking a free ride - one lousy businessman while the other a cheap politician.
So, what is the direction of Malay politics from now on? Sex scandal is becoming a popular tool to kill someone. Create or dub it, out they go. Soi Lek was lucky because MCA members recognise his ability to lead while the sex scandal is his personal, very personal matter.
Info Minister Rais Yatim too was almost shattered by such politics when bloggers and journalists - whether they are pro or against the govt - 'worked together' in manipulating his maid issue. And all of them are Malays, the MELAYU (take out the ME, they will forever remain LAYU).
I dont think this is the new political model mentioned by Najib yesterday. Or is it just part of? Sooner or later, more sex elements would be used to bring down someone. When all Malay politicians are so engrossed to become heroes in Anwar's case, Umno members and the rakyat remained neglected, nobody to fight for their cause.
Anwar is becoming the top priority among the Malays, within Umno politics. Whether there is a cahoot against him or not, I couldnt be bothered. He still gotta settle his court case because the more it drags on, the more it will excite Malay politicians.
In the end, what will happen to the rest of our priorities - jobless, poverty, spiraling prices, low wages, education, moral decays among youth, etc? Who will attend it? Barack Obama? Or Osama bin Laden...or Netanyahu?
But why not? Our politics are already at par with theirs - where murders and sex scandals are the Malay politics main agenda!
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 05:19 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 09:13 AM PDT
Pretty scary stuff. The way Facebook utilizes one application after another to milk our private and personal info.
The following video is very straight forward and shows just what happens when those who get bitten by the Facebook virus end up disclosing almost everything about their personal life and itty bitty details.
The espionage agencies of the world would be very happily tapping in to the lives of billions of Facebookers collecting vital information supplied to them by those who are just too naive to know that whatever confidential details about themselves that they do not have any form of control over is gonna comeback and bite them in the ass, metaphorically speaking!
Really! This is no joke! Please stop exposing all personal details about yourself and stupidly letting others milk such personal and private data about you! Even Obama warned the world about disclosing too much about oneself in Facebook!
Here's another video that warns young people about posting sensitive information or explicit pictures that can and will return to harm them when they least expect it.
Once you press the Enter key and open yourself up to the entire internet, there is no 'Backspace' thats gonna be able to undo the harm you've done to yourself.
So please, be extra careful about losing control over sensitive data and info about your private confidential information. If it falls into the wrong hands, life will not be worth living anymore when you are hounded by the devil's spawn in human form.
Please spread this article to all those whom you care about and help them stop disclosing too much vital info in Facebook.
Chances are that you might just lose face when the global audience sees things about our own selfs that they should not!
Better to be safe than sorry!
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 07:28 AM PDT
KUALA LUMPUR: 25 Mac – Perdana Menteri, Datuk Seri Najib Razak berbangga dengan kejayaan Karnival Kerjaya Pemuda Barisan Nasional (BN) 2011 yang diiktiraf Malaysia Book of Records sebentar tadi sebagai karnival kerjaya terbesar di Malaysia, membabitkan penawaran sebanyak 40,000 peluang kerja.
Beliau berkata demikian ketika merasmikan karnival itu di Pusat Dagangan Dunia Putra (PWTC) di sini, sebentar tadi.
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 05:59 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 05:30 AM PDT
A fever has broken out over Putrajaya's handling of the Alkitab row that appears to have split multicultural Malaysia into two distinct camps — Muslim and non-Muslim — as the nation readies for crucial polls in Sarawak, its biggest Christian state.
The Malaysian Consultative Council of Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Sikhism and Taoism (MCCBCHST) issued a strongly worded statement today accusing the Najib administration of riding roughshod over religions other than Islam when it imposed conditions for the release of 35,000 Malay bibles seized from Port Klang and Kuching.
"This means that the Alkitab (Bahasa Malaysia version) is now considered a restricted item and 'the Word of God' has been made subject to the control of man," it said, citing the Christian Federation of Malaysia (CFM) in the latter's previous attempt to free the bibles.
CFM is the umbrella body that represents over 90 per cent of churches here.
In a series of news statements that started earlier this month, the Christian organisation denounced the Najib administration for defacing its holy books with the home ministry's official seal, an act it said amounted to desecration.
"Does our current prime minister wield any authority? And if he does not, who does?" the interfaith council demanded of Datuk Seri Najib Razak.
"We also vehemently oppose the present line of action being pursued," it said in solidarity with the Christian community.
About one in 10 Malaysians is Christian.
The MCCBCHST said the authorities seemed to want Malaysians to believe that the Alkitab conflict is solely a tussle between two creeds, Islam and Christianity; and affects only Muslims and Christians.
"After the Christians have been 'fixed', who next?" the MCCBCHST questioned.
The council — which represents five out of the country's six main creeds — reminded the ruling Barisan Nasional (BN) coalition of its founder's words uttered shortly after Independence in 1957.
"Let freedom be secured for all the law-abiding people. There shall be freedom of worship, freedom of speech, freedom from want, freedom of association, freedom of assembly and freedom of movement," it said, citing first prime minister Tunku Abdul Rahman Putra Al-Haj. The political leaders definitely do not have a finger on the pulse of the nation. They are definitely wrong in what they are doing," it added, in a thinly veiled dig at Najib's 1 Malaysia slogan aimed at uniting the different communities.
The MCCBCHST further accused Islamic leaders of not knowing their own religion despite dipping their fingers into the controversy.
"In the face of what has been alluded to the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) in the narrative about 'The Promise to St Catherine', it is highly suspect that the Islamic high officials in our country do not even know their own religion!" it said.
Prophet Muhammad was said to have made a promise to a delegation of monks from the monastery near Mount Sinai over 1,400 years ago that Muslims will always protect Christians and their way of worship.An English translation of the promise as published in the Islamic web site, Muslim.net, can be read here:
Prophet Muhammad's promise to Christians - By Dr. Muqtedar Khan.
The Christian and Muslim religious communities have been engaged in a tug-of-war over the word "Allah", with the latter group arguing that its use should be exclusive to them on the grounds that Islam is monotheistic and the word "Allah" denotes the Muslim God.
Christians, however, have argued that "Allah" is an Arabic word that has been used by those of other religious beliefs, including the Jews, for centuries in reference to God in many other parts of the world, notably in Arab nations and Indonesia.
The tussle is still trapped in the courts after the ministry won a stay of the 2009 High Court ruling that allowed Catholic weekly The Herald to use "Allah" in its Bahasa Malaysia section.
The ongoing bible row started in January and came to a head last week after the home ministry stamped the two separate shipments with its official seal before ordering their release.
The Christian importers have denounced the Najib administration for the act, which they say is a desecration of their holy book.
Two days ago, the government backed down and offered to paste over the marked Alkitab with labels that simply read "For Christianity".
In a media statement to national news agency, Bernama, Minister in the Prime Minister's Department Datuk Seri Idris Jala said Christian donors have also volunteered to ship in a new replacement consignment so long as the importers agree to have the same words "For Christianity" stamped on their covers in font type Arial size 16.
"No other words or serial numbers will be stamped on the bibles," Jala added.
CFM is pondering accepting Putrajaya's offer and has said will give its decision after consulting with all Christian leaders next week.
With Sarawakians going to the polls on April 16, the twin issues are expected to weigh on the minds of Christians who make up close to half of the hornbill state's total population.
Courtesy of The Malaysian Insider
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 03:07 AM PDT
Program Dato' Seri Anwar Ibrahim di Pulau Pinang
Membongkar Konspirasi Politik Terkini
26 Mac 2011 (Sabtu)
4.30 ptg – Hi-Tea dan Sumbangan Kepada Mangsa Ribut Kampong Besar
Lokasi: Pusat Khidmat DUN Permatang Pasir
7.00 mlm –Solat Maghrib/Hajat dan Tazkirah
Lokasi: Masjid Daerah Bandar Perda, Seberang Jaya
9.00-12.00 mlm – Membongkar Konspirasi Politik Terkini
Lokasi : Taman Pauh Indah, Bandar Perda
1. YB Dato' Seri Anwar Ibrahim
2. YAB Lim Guan Eng
3. YB Dato' Mansor Othman
4. YB Dato' Johari Abdul
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 03:14 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 02:59 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 03:07 AM PDT
We're different, IndieMoms. And so, of course, we're a mystery to some people. There are certain questions that people always seem to want to ask about our single life, so I say let's just let them in on it, shall we?
This is for anyone in your life who wonders what it's like to be you…
Women often say that men tend to ogle at their breasts and their face is the last thing they notice, and now a scientific study has found evidence to prove them right.
Scientists have found that almost half – 47 per cent – of men first glance at a woman's breasts. A third of the "first fixations" are on the waist and hips, while fewer than 20 per cent look at the woman's face, reports the Daily Mail in UK.
In fact, breasts are not only the first thing men look at, they also glance at them for longer than any other body part, revealed experts. Many believe that the reason behind such male tendency could be evolutionary, as women with larger chests and slim waists – such as Jennifer Hawkins, Lara Bingle and Rachael Finch – have higher levels of the female hormone oestrogen, indicating greater fertility. But the researchers conceded that there could be a more prosaic explanation
"Men may be looking more often at the breasts because they are simply aesthetically pleasing, regardless of the size," the Daily Telegraph quoted them as saying.
Subjects tested by researchers from New Zealand's University of Wellington were presented with six images of the same woman, digitally altered to increase or decrease the size of her bust, waist and hips. The scientists recorded which areas men looked at first, the number of times they looked, and how long their gaze lasted, using cameras and mirrors to measure tiny eye movements.
"Eighty per cent of first fixations were on the breasts and midriff. Men spent consistently more time looking at the breasts and also made significantly more fixations upon them than other regions," the study concluded.
It also found that men began to gaze at the "components of the hourglass figure" within 0.2 seconds. The research also discovered that few glances were directed at the arms, lower legs and feet.
Ask me if it's fun to date, because somewhere deep down, you wonder what it would be like if you were back out there…what it's like to have sex with someone new…what you might fetch on the open market. And I'll tell you that most of the time it is fun. Like when you find yourself at 1a.m. making out with a summer fling on a New York City sidewalk in the pouring rain. Or when you wake up to a text from a guy you had a fantastic first date with the night before that says, "Good morning, beautiful. Hope you slept well." Yeah, that makes the 6:45a.m. scorched oatmeal/where's my backpack/no-you-can't-wear-an-off-the-shoulder-shirt-because-you're-in-second-grade slog a lot more tolerable.
And then sometimes, it isn't. Like when the guy you've been dating for six months suddenly tells you that he's "confused," and you have no idea what that means. You're a grown woman, and a kick-ass IndieMom at that–you have waaay too much going on to let something like this get to you. And yet it does, and it's made all that much harder because now you have to face the 6:45 slog with a sick feeling in your gut. And, of course, at no point can you let on to IndieBabe that that's not exactly an "allergy pill" you're taking to calm the whirring dating crazies in your head.
Ask me if I knew that my marriage was a mistake before I walked down the aisle. I know why you're asking; you need to know if this can happen to you. No, I don't think my marriage was a mistake. It was seven years of success…until it wasn't. Did I sense that maybe we weren't meant for the long run? Okay, maybe, a little (and I think he did, too). But he was lovely and I thought it was nerves that would be quelled by the security of stainless steel silverware and a warm body next to mine every night. I think a lot of brides float down the aisle in that pretty poufy dress with a corseted stomach filled with butterflies. It takes a while to know if they were actually butterflies or your instincts throwing karate kicks against your lower ribs to get your attention.
It's ok to ask me if I get lonely. Yes, course I do. National holidays without IndieBabe can
seriously suck. Cut to midnight, New Years Eve 2008: I'm sitting alone on the side of the community pool at my parents' condo in Boca staring at a "No Diving" sign featuring a stick figure doing exactly that, his neck dramatically and I'm guessing fatally kinked. At that moment I could relate to the poor guy.
But I also get the elation of freedom and adventures yet to be had. Your life is just the mirror opposite of mine. You have security and consistency; I have breathing room and the ability to make my life into anything I want it to be. I've been on the flip side of the looking glass, and I know that it's not any better to feel like you don't have a second to yourself and or to wonder the proverbial "Is this all there is?" It's taken me a lot of time and many rounds of "their life looks so perfect" holiday cards to get that neither side is better or worse–they're just different.
Ask me if I'm happy, because ultimately, that's what you really want to know–especially if you're asking me because you're trying to sort out your own question of whether to stay or go. And while I would never, ever advocate for divorce, my answer is absolutely, unequivocally: yes.
Casual sex does not cause emotional or psychological damage in young people, says a new study.
Researchers at the University of Minnesota found that young adults engaging in casual sexual encounters do not appear to be at increased risk for harmful psychological outcomes as compared to sexually active young adults in more committed relationships.
From 2003-2004, 574 males and 737 females in Minnesota with a mean age of 20.5 were surveyed regarding sexual behaviours and emotional wellbeing.
Of the sexually active respondents, 55 per cent reported that their last sexual partner was an exclusive dating partner followed by 25 per cent whose most recent partner was a fiancée, spouse, or life partner.
In fact, I'll even venture this: I've never been happier in my life. Crazy, I know, but it's true. I have my girl, I have my sense of self, and I have the wide open possibility of a fabulous new life yet to be created.
Oh, and btw…sex with someone new? Yeah, it's as good as you think it is.
A conversation with someone you just met at a pub could turn intimate and there are chances that you might even get lucky if things turn a little romantic. And, if a recent study is to be believed, one-night stands are increasingly turning into meaningful relationships.
Many surveys have suggested that the quality of a relationship is better for individuals who wait for things to get serious before having sex, in comparison to the those who become sexually involved right at the start. However, this new study found that a woman who is involved with a friend is 44 % more likely to stay committed and as for the men, the likelihood increases by 25%. If the same people were to get involved with a stranger or acquaintance, the odds increase by 30% for women and 43% for men.
"To have a meaningful relationship out of a one-night stand is absolutely wishful thinking and many people are in denial," says Sanjana, a graduate and regular party-goer, "A one-night stand can be dangerous as it increases the chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases — not the best thing to happen, especially when one is merely looking for fun."
The 'friends with benefits' concept has also been in existence for long, and although it is based on sexual gratification, which can be temporarily fulfiling, a mature mind stops one from being part of the game.
Rhea, a visual artist, who believes in being sexually experimental, says, "Having sex with random men gives one a liberated feel initially. But the down side of this behaviour is that after some time, it backfires and gives one a feeling of worthlessness. In some ways, it's like abusing and disrespecting your body." However, she was the one who met her mate in the most casual of circumstances. She met a Canadian national over a drink, they got talking, exchanged stories and are now in love. "It was such a beautiful feeling. We haven't made love yet and I'm in no hurry as I've never felt this way before," she says, "It may not be a one-night stand, but if the chemistry we share is good, there's nothing stopping us from going ahead and getting into a relationship." So, it appears that the study does have some relevance even in our country.
Psychologist Sudha says, "Couples who become sexually involved with friends or acquaintances and are open to serious relationships could end up just as happy as those who date and wait."
However, Rhea might have been lucky, and although a random hook-up at a bar does have the potential to turn into a passionate relationship, some relationship experts say it's not really the best idea. Clinical psychologist, Seema Hingorrani says, "Often, sexual intimacy leads the couple to believe that they can have a good relationship as well. But later, feelings of guilt creep in. In situations like this, it's best to tread carefully as it affects the lives of several people."
Recalling a real-life situation, Seema says, "There was this man who was married but had a one-night stand with a woman and then wanted to marry her. He left his wife and got into a live-in relationship with the new woman, only to find out later on in life that they had serious problems. He wanted to get back with his wife, but she refused to do so and instead divorced him."
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 02:35 AM PDT
Saya merujuk kepada kenyataan yang dibuat semalam oleh Dato' Shazryl Eskay
Dato' Eskay menyatakan bahawa dia juga turut dirakam di dalam video
Pengakuan Dato' Eskay menimbulkan keraguan besar kepada jalan ceritanya
Jelas bahawa itu pembohongan kerana dia sendiri mengaku bahawa dia adalah
Saya juga mendesak Perdana Menteri sendiri memberi maklumbalas kepada satu
Perkara ini menimbulkan tanda tanya yang serius mengenai setakat manakah
Keengganan kerajaan mengambil tindakan tegas dan segera ke atas semua dalang
Demi membersihkan namanya dan UMNO, Perdana Menteri perlu membuat kenyataan
*NIK NAZMI NIK AHMAD*
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 02:35 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 01:52 AM PDT
Ini pergaduhan antara kekasih.
Satu orang yang kita gelas A telah ditangkap bersama seorang pelacur dari China. Kekasihnya yang kita AA mengamuk sakan dengan A.
Asal ceritanya, A nak jumpa AA untuk terangkan apa sebenarnya berlaku. A sepatutnya terangkan pada W kenapa ini berlaku tetapi dia terangkan pada AA dulu.
AA menghentak-hentak kaki dan mengarah semua staf pejabat keluar. Namun begitu, mereka tak peduli kerana arahan tak nampak serius. Maka pergaduhan antara dua insan bercinta ni dapat dilihat semua.
Lepas menghentak kaki, AA mula tanya dengan suara yang tinggi, "Kenapa you main dengan pompuan pelacur?"
"No no ... please do understand. I tak main, cuma berzina aje," jawab A.
"Oooo ... berzina dengan betina. Dah takde jantan lain ke?," sergah AA.
"Please Yang, sumpah lepas ni abang tak buat lagi," pujuk A.
"OK, kalau you berani, sumpah la ...," kata AA yang mula lembut.
"Err Yang, sumpah cara saiful ke cara ...? Takutla Yang, nanti I kena sambar petir betul-betul macamana?" tanya A pada AA.
"You sumpah je la ... asal ada. Nik Ajis kan dah ajar kita buat apa yang rasional je ...," kata AA.
"Saya A bin I dengan ini bersumpah di hadapan tuhan plural yang pelbagai akan setia bersama jantan sahaja dan tidak akan mencari pompuan lain ..."
Selepas itu, dikhabarkan mereka saling berpelukan. A kenyit mata kat staf lain sambil tunjuk signal OK.
Nak tahu siapa A yang kaki bohong ini, pergi ke GAP sini.
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 01:02 AM PDT
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 12:53 AM PDT
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Prime Minister Najib Razak met with the three men behind the sex video that allegedly showed a man looking like Opposition Leader Anwar Ibrahim having sex with a prostitute, said PKR in a statement issued on Thursday.
In a sudden twist seen as an attempt to shield Prime Minister Najib Razak and his cousin Hishamuddin Hussein from bad publicity after a sex video scandal went awry, former Malacca chief minister Rahim Thamby Chik, former consul to Thailand Shazryl Eskay and Perkasa treasurer Shuib Lazim confessed they were behind the public screening of the tape they claimed implicated Opposition Leader Anwar Ibrahim.
"(We want to show) a person who wants to be national leader and PM was not qualified," Rahim told a press conference.related articleRahim Thamby Chik Tongue Tornado! carelessly spoken words that can cause a lifetime's regret
Tell me if the following rulings by the judge in Anwar Ibrahim's trial is not mind boggling.First the court ruled that a towel, a toothbrush and a mineral water bottle introduced by the prosecution were inadmissible as they had been unlawfully obtained.Subsequently, the same judge overruled his own decision and held that the items are now admissible and can be relied upon by the prosecution.Perhaps because Anwar has been accused by the prosecution of indulging in an unnatural sexual act, an unnatural trial is therefore to be expected.What I mean is that people are too naive or foolish if they expect Anwar's trial to be placed in the same category as other ordinary criminal trials involving the average person.Don't believe me? Can anyone tell me if any other sodomy complainant has been allowed to see the prime minister or his wife at their official residence?Or if other victims could personally contact the IGP? Or allowed to provide their police statement in the privacy and comfort of a hotel room? Or if Anwar is not being put on trial in the court of public opinion, courtesy of the pro-government media?Or if other prosecution affidavits are published in newspapers before they are submitted to the trial?Or if we have unrelated organisations organising protests to pressure the accused into surrendering his DNA samples?And the lists goes on.Like it or not Anwar's trial has never been usual and natural to begin with. You don't see many such stunts appearing anywhere else but here.When Anwar is tried, it seems that the entire machinery of the government have been in operation to viciously finish him off. As far as Umno is concerned, Anwar is the enemy of the State thus any means to destroy him is justified.One must be crazy to even dream that Anwar would be accorded a genuine due process. What transpired inside and outside the trial reaffirms the people's belief that the ghost of his first sodomy trial has now returned with a vengeance.Judging from what has happened throughout his trial so far, people suspect something must be wrong somewhere.Is his a legal or political trial? Is he or our administration of justice being tried? What do his enemies really want?Many well-planned coincidences also emerge in Anwar's fiasco.When Anwar was to be nominated as a candidate for Permatang Pauh's by-election, the public were suddenly shown Saiful's oath in the Federal Territory mosque.Now, when people are to go to the polls in Sarawak, they are shown yet with another stunt — a sex video tape purportedly featuring Anwar as the main actor of the scene.For the first time, a sex video was publicly viewed without any interference from the police. And for the first time, Malaysians are told Datuk T comprises of three individuals .Anyway Anwar should be thankful to his political rivals as they do not mind Rahim Tamby Chik's role in this new release video.When Rahim shows his utmost concern on sex related materials, history is being rewritten.Never mind Anwar… lawan tetap lawan
Anwar for having to be subjected to these sort of obviously false/doubtful immoral frame-up like the sodomy I and II. Politics aside, as a human being, how can one subject another person and his family to these lies…. under the watchful eyes of the nations authorities.Lies repeated often enough will become truth. Politic is war of perception.Thus, even though there are still many out there who believe this is a smear campaign against DSAI, there are bound to have some people who start to doubt his credibility to lead – just because lies repeated often enough will be so true.This kind of people need different approach to deal with. Thus,for PR to win back support, they must tackle this issue by taking a different approach. They must change their public opinion, because that is how support is won.the key point in this sordid event is that UMNO leaders obviously hold Anwar in very high regards. For that reason alone, Malaysians should give Anwar a chance to perform in some capacity in Government. Afterall, there must be some valid reason why UMNO leaders find it so crucial to prevent Anwar from contniuning his political career. Funny thing is many people do not have any where near as high a regard for Anwar as the UMNO leaders!
Proof lies in theTHE burning question now is whether or not
this Chinese lady Topless Photos IS JOCELINE TAN"THERE HAVE BEEN A NUMBER OF NUDE FAKES OVER THE PAST TWO MONTHS.JOCELINE TAN HAS SEEN THEM AND FINDS THEM TIRESOME. PEOPLE SHOULD KNOW BETTER."EVEN IF THE PHOTO WAS REAL, WHO CARES?Only a handful of people can answer that with some degree of authority because everyone else talking about it has not SEEN
JOCELINE TAN IN ACTION
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At Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim's home last night, former Abim president Datuk Siddiq Fadhil gave an impassioned sermon to a 400-strong crowd of mostly Muslims.
But a quick survey of the compound saw more than half of the men clad in robes or baju Melayus absorbed in reading a chronological account of events in the sex video saga where Anwar is allegedly shown having sex with a prostitute.
Curiosity, especially within the Malay public, has been piqued and this is viewed positively by Pakatan Rakyat (PR), who will be holding a series of rallies in the coming week that will see it go on the offensive, accusing Umno of gutter politics."The sex video is shrouded in doubt. This has opened the way for us to reach the public, especially the Malays who want to find out more," PKR secretary-general Saifuddin Nasution told The Malaysian Insider.
Last night, Anwar held prayers at his home and had catered for 250 Muslims to come for a night of sermons, but the opposition leader later had to apologise to the 400 who came for being ill-prepared for the crowd.
If the video is — as PR claims — an Umno ploy, then it may well backfire as pact now appear to have been galvanised.
Anwar is in his element when under siege and issues quickly become platforms for the PKR de facto leader, as was seen when tens of thousands protested his 1998 sacking as deputy prime minister.
His party has responded swiftly to seize the initiative since the video first surfaced on Monday, alleging Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Razak's involvement with the trio, collectively known as "Datuk T", behind the 21-minute tape.
PKR's claims of dirty politics by Umno has gained credence when Tan Sri Abdul Rahim Thamby Chik, who had to resign in 1994 as Malacca chief minister after accusations of statutory rape, admitted that he was part of "Datuk T."
Umno, too, has seen the potential damage and has been quick to distance itself from its former Youth chief, insisting that Abdul Rahim was acting in his personal capacity.
Significantly, even PAS now seems to be firmly by Anwar's side after talk of uneasiness with PKR following a string of by-election defeats in Malay-majority seats.
When a reporter asked Anwar on Tuesday if he should swear on the Quran that he was not the man in a sex video that surfaced the day before, it was PAS president Datuk Seri Abdul Hadi Awang who insisted on fielding the question.
"Let me answer this," he told Anwar at the press conference, before launching into a short sermon on Syariah law.
"We were surprised. Hadi is usually very reserved but I think he has had enough," said PKR deputy president Azmin Ali.
In a sermon that night in Taman Medan, Petaling Jaya, he spent over 20 minutes of a fiery speech claiming that the ruling Barisan Nasional (BN) was indulging in gutter politics to bring down Opposition Leader Anwar, who is also facing an ongoing sodomy trial.The normally calm Abdul Hadi has been on a warpath since.
According to Saifuddin, the ceramah drew a crowd of 5,000 — over 20 per cent more than expected.
"Yes, we've noticed that Hadi has become very fierce since the video came out," said former PAS secretary-general Datuk Kamaruddin Jaafar.
Abdul Hadi has been seen as being cool about his Islamic party's relationship with Anwar, unlike the "Erdogan" camp in PAS that is said to support the embattled PKR de facto leader at all cost.
Anwar finding an unexpected champion in Abdul Hadi to fight the latest allegation of sexual misconduct is the clearest sign that the opposition coalition still has plenty of puff left in it.
Azmin's sister, Ummi Hafilda, who has accused Anwar of sexual misconduct over the past 13 years, has claimed that there are 18 more sex videos of the Permatang Pauh MP.
But as Badrul Hisham Baharin, a PKR Youth leader, put it last night, "They can have 188 more sex videos and it would not matter
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Posted: 25 Mar 2011 12:25 AM PDT
Via the Malaysian Chronicle:)
Thursday, 24 March 2011 19:44
Najib met the Datuk T trio on Wednesday evening, says PKR
Written by Stan Lee, Malaysia Chronicle
Najib met the Datuk T trio on Wednesday evening, says PKR
Prime Minister Najib Razak met with the three men behind the sex video that allegedly showed a man looking like Opposition Leader Anwar Ibrahim having sex with a prostitute, said PKR in a statement issued on Thursday.
"I urge the prime minister himself to respond to reports from sources that the three masterminds had met with him in his office in Parliament," PKR communications director Nik Nazmi.
Nik Nazmi said that PKR was also told the meeting took place on Wednesday evening at the same time that Najib chaired an Umno political bureau meeting.
"To clear his name and Umno's, the prime minister must make an immediate statement on what was discussed with the three masterminds of the sex video that has brought shame to Malaysia," said Nik Nazmi, who is also the Seri Setia assemblyman.
Crime but police have not confiscated the tape
In what has widely been perceived as the latest conspiracy by the Umno elite to tarnish Anwar, the three men had organised a screening of the 21-minute video for editors and journalists of the mainstream media.
The three are former Malacca chief minister Rahim Thamby Chik, businessman Shazryl Eskay and Perkasa treasurer Shuib Lazim. They had admitted to organising the screening of the video on Wednesday afternoon.
They have refused to surrender the tape to the police or to Anwar. In a bid to deflect attention from the fact that they had broken the law, they have demanded that a Royal Commission of Inquiry be set up to determine if Anwar was the man in the tape.
It is a crime to keep pornographic material and screening it in public is an offense that can be punished by imprisonment of up to 5 years.
Nevertheless, police have not moved to confiscate the tape nor arrest the men although they themselves had confessed to a crime.
"This raise serious questions over the involvement of government leaders in the recording and screening of the sex video that clearly violates several laws," pointed out Nik Nazmi.
Nik Nazmi also said that the government's reluctance to take stern action against those involved only boosted the perception that it was involved in the conspiracy against Anwar.
PKR MP for Sungai Petani Johari Abdul had first exposed the trio, but Rahim accused him of demanding money to defect. Johari had been taken by Shuib to see Shazryl and Ramli, who screened the video for him. Ramli had tried to entice him to cross over.
But according to Johari, the former Malacca chief minister had also promised to bring him to see Najib if he agreed to dump PKR. This implies that Najib was aware of the operation to smear Anwar and to get PKR MPs to hop over.
Anwar has denied being the man in the tape and has accused Najib and Home Minister Hishammuddin Hussein as being among the perpetrators.
PKR want Datuk Seri Najib Razak to explain his alleged meeting yesterday with the three men behind the video purportedly showing Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim having sex with a Chinese prostitute.
DESIDERATA: I would want all the media to STOP ID-ing the socalled sex partner in the video as a "prostitute" and her ancestry to be "Chinese"...In the first case, she could be a girlfriend of one of the Datuk T.
Also, she could easily be a Thai, Mongolian or even Syrian,NO? Malaysians have proven rhemselves to have multinational tastes! Remember original ID of a gal in another video at a police station was wrongly made as from mainland China, and a Wisma Putra official went to China to tender an apology for her being made TO DO SQUATTING many times? Later it transoired she was a Malaysian Malay gal, don't you forget!
How convenient is it to now "compose" a new hybrid person called a Datuk T for "Trio" ala the Triity! -- I believe these culprits are preparing for an "escape route" when it boomerangs on them.
Can a hybridised Homo sapiens be liable under Malaysian law?
If there is any mens rea/MOTIVE for the offence, Rahim Thamby Chik had openly stated it -- he said DSAnwar Ibrahom was responsible for his loss of the job as Malacca's chief minister, and this sex episode has all the ingredents of "vengeance" politics, NO?/Yes?/Maybe?
Hey, I must think the former CM of Malacca has got an IQ slightly above ZERO! Remember he was acquitted of a sex charge involving a minor not so longer ago? Or BIG brother then PM Dr Mahathir Mohamad instructed the AG's Chambers to drop the charges? My gas is as gOod as yours, my Esteemed/XXsteamed Readers! :(:(
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